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Laura Egley Taylor

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giving thanks

November 26th, 2009

giving-thanksWhen Mothering publisher and editor Peggy O’Mara asked everybody on staff to send their Thanksgiving menus so we could post them online, I felt a little squeamish. Truth is, Thanksgiving kind of snuck up on me this year. Tim and I thought Reeve would be visiting a friend across the country, so we just figured we’d do what we’ve done the last couple of years when he was out of the country: a quiet celebratory meal, just the two of us, at . . . Dunkin’ Donuts.*

I couldn’t see adding to the  inspired Mothering staff menus online my own planned fare for the day: “Dunkin’ Donuts egg and cheese bagel; cinnamon fritter; really hot coffee (regular and decaf; cream and sugar available)”

But, instead, Reeve came home for the holiday. Knowing that we hadn’t made plans for Thursday, he accepted an invitation to join a friend’s family on their ranch a couple of hours from here.

So he left this morning, taking with him the apple pie I made in my sleep late last night (my embarrassingly easy prefab pie crusts that I dust with sugar and cinnamon so people might think they’re homemade)—even though I felt a little weird sending it after Reeve said he was told that the mom on the ranch was “known for her pies. . . .” He’ll stay the night, then will be back tomorrow for family adventuring with Tim and me.

And Tim and I went to Dunkin’ Donuts, which was, as we both anticipated, exquisite. The coffee perfectly hot hot hot, the bagel properly almost too-toasted, the conversation transcendant.  And we were grateful.

Much of the day, I was feeling alternately 1) grateful that Reeve had a place he was excited about being for Thanksgiving, and 2) remiss that Tim and I didn’t provide that for him, that we’ve never done the full-blown Thanksgiving dinner with all the trimmings as a threesome (Reeve has had that Norman Rockwell-style experience on occasion in the past when we’ve visited our extended families, but never at our house. We’ve always opted instead for unconventional honorings of the day, usually involving road trips and Route 66-era motels and diners.), fretting, feeling inadequate as a mom.

But then, late afternoon, I got a short message from Reeve, texting me from the ranch, saying simply: “Your pie is amazing!”

Warming this mama’s little non-cooking heart and somehow making everything right. . .

Happy Thanksgiving, y’all.

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Photo: Tim and I give thanks today over our own personal variation on the traditional Thanksgiving meal.


*followed by several hours at the Mothering office, where I attended to my production throes freakout—files are always due at the press the last week of November—while Tim wrote or read

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scenes from a santa fe thanksgiving

November 26th, 2009

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when the going gets tough, the tough.. .

November 25th, 2009

campfire(defying the day’s deadline pressures, computer breakdown, car failure, and renewed fears about family health and money) (arriving at home late, exhausted and emotional, thrilled to discover that Son of the Tough—home from college for the week—has purchased graham crackers, chocolate bars, and marshmallows) build campfires.

After which, the tough, chilled from the 20-degree night air, and the son stand together in the bathtub, pants legs rolled up, soaking their feet in hot water and discussing the nature of being and the meaning of life.

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Photo of Reeve and Tim at our backyard campfire (built in the little $10 Walgreens grill we bought for a Memorial Day picnic years ago and used only once), toasting marshmallows for S’mores.

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getting all squishy and sentimental

November 20th, 2009

mel-and-lauraMel (staff photographer, production ad manager, and general all-round design- and web-production maven Melyssa Holik) and I have had quite a week. Made and shot soups for the Peggy’s Kitchen section of the magazine earlier in the week, have been cranking out layouts, dealing with advertisers, prepping e-blasts, handling mini-crises. . . We’ve gotten so much done, much of it with style and grace—and surprisingly little stress.

Today we shot our staff photo (an annual ritual for the back page of the Jan-Feb issue). And, granted, it’s Friday and I’m bizhausted (as Reeve used to say), worn-out and migrainey, but . . .  I’m oddly moved by this detail from one of the staff pics: Mel and me. Makes me feel big sisterly and proud and grateful for our team.

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Photo by Melyssa Holik (but not with that camera!

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textured whimsy

November 20th, 2009

the-brave-little-girlI’ve been admiring the work of Suzanne Summersgill at Pinn Studio for years and am thrilled to finally have a chance to work with her. (She’s doing an illustration for our upcoming Jan-Feb issue.)

Here’s a piece from her website, “The Brave Little Girl.” I love that combination of built textures and whimsy!

Check out more of her work here.

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dorie hagler

November 18th, 2009

dorie-haglerOne of the things that has come clear to me in my job is this: Just about anybody can take a good photo these days.

Thanks to digital cameras, photography —once the mysterious realm of those few who understood the secrets of light and ground glass, distance and timing and chemistry —has been made available, cheap and easy, to the masses. So, now, anyone who clicks away often enough is bound to end up with the occasional nice shot or two.

That said, there is still a huge difference between people who can take good photos and photographers who consistently turn out aesthetically and technically excellent photos again and again. And although there’s plenty a photographer needs to know to create fabulous studio photos, I think the real proving ground for photographers is still in photojournalism/documentary photography —that challenging arena where you’ve got to think on your feet and know when, where, and what to shoot. And there are no do-overs. Requirements for the job: a good sense of timing and a good eye, the ability to think on the fly, creativity, reliable equipment, and . . . fearlessness.

dorie-state-penWhich brings me to a documentary photographer (and good friend) I did a shoot with this week in Taos, New Mexico, Dorie Hagler. I love Dorie’s style (that’s her photo above) and her spunk.

The first time I worked with Dorie was back in 2000, when I was the art director at Santa Fe’s alternative weekly. For a cover story marking the 20th anniversary of a tragic prison riot at the New Mexico State Penitentiary, Dorie and I drove out to the State Pen. We met the warden—who gave us a rundown of the rules regarding visits and told us we would not be allowed to photograph the prisoners—then were escorted into the maximum security unit.

The guards who accompanied us removed a prisoner from his cell and put him in a metal cage-type holding “box” while they let us peek into his cell. (Dorie stepped in to shoot some photos and the guards slammed the door shut, locking her in and laughing themselves silly. She took the opportunity to grab photos of their jiggling beer guts through the food slot in the cell door.)

We had been told we wouldn’t be allowed to photograph prisoners, but Dorie asked the guards anyway whether she could take a photo of the man in the cage. They said she could if he gave her permission. Thus began a remarkably normal conversation between this tiny (she can’t be more than 5 feet tall) young woman and the convict in the box. Yes, she had his permission. I don’t remember what all they talked about, but as Dorie asked him about his homemade tattoos, the prisoner stretched his arms out toward her in what almost looked like supplication. She got the photo; we ran it on the cover.

On the way back to town, I told Dorie how impressed I was that she had managed to get the photo we were told we would not be allowed to take, impressed with her persistence and fearlessness. She said—and I think about this often—that it wasn’t a matter of  fearlessness; it was just that she knew she would regret it if she didn’t do all that she could to get the photos she went there to get. . .

Photo at top is from Dorie’s website, where you can see a sampling of her documentary work.

Second image is a scan of the Santa Fe Reporter cover that ran after our trip to the State Pen.

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back in the fray

November 13th, 2009

signsWe’re once again in the midst of production, a nebulous term which includes copyediting, fact checking, photo shooting/image acquisition, page layout, photo optimization, page proofing, finger crossing, and an office drawer full of chocolate.

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Photo: The NM Railrunner South Capitol station, here in Santa Fe. (Dare I say Santa Fe is a pedestrian-friendly town?)

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C.R.A.P.

November 10th, 2009

pardner-1No, I’m not spewing epithets over here. C.R.A.P. is the easy-to-remember acronym  provided to us by the delightful and brilliant Robin Williams* for the four basic principles of design:

Contrast

Repetition

Alignment

Proximity

To give a brief demonstration of how these work, I’m including here some examples from Robin’s The Non-Designer’s Design Book.**

OK, let’s take these principles one at a time. We’ll talk about proximity first. Take a look at the flyer at the right. Notice how the little bold headers are the same distance from the lines above them and the lines below? Each line or paragraph appears to be a separate item.You can’t tell which headline the text belongs to.

And although there’s white space, it’s scattered all over the place, including places where it shouldn’t be, like between the headlines and the text that follows them. (We say this white space is trapped; and trapped white space visually pushes apart the items it’s trapped by.)pardner-2

Now, look at this version of the flyer. See how the heads and text that belong together are in proximity with one another, with each head-and-text unit separated by white space above and below?

The contact information has been grouped separately at the bottom of the page, so that the viewer can tell at a glance that it’s important. Proximity is an efficient way to immediately communicate to the viewer what he or she should pay attention to.

The alignment here has been changed from centered to left-aligned, so there’s room to make the picture bigger. This further organizes the text, so that the viewer’s eye knows where to go without any confusion, since all the lines begin at the same left margin. (Text that is centered can be difficult to read in large blocks, since the eye has to scan to find the beginning of each line.)

Let’s see. Repetition. Notice how the bold headers (ending in ellipses) are repeated. The typeface used here is also repeated throughout the flyer, as is the color (black, in this case).

pardner-3And, finally, contrast. In the flyer at the right, look at how the headline is bigger and bolder and in a typeface that contrasts with the body copy.  (This typeface is repeated for “Be a Cowboy” to bring home the message, kind of like a call to action. Repetition.)

The headline type is upper- and lowercase, which also adds contrast. (If you look at a line of text that’s in all caps, you’ll see that the shape it makes is an even rectangle. Using upper- and lowercase gives a line of text more shape.)

The little heads or lead-ins were made bigger to contrast with the text that follows them (but they’re still in the same typeface as the text that follows and still in proximity, so they still look like they belong together.)

The illustration is much bigger and was made lighter so as not to overpower the text.

So, there you have it: C.R.A.P. Granted, I’ve oversimplified here, but this gives a brief idea of how these principles work; to learn more, check out The Non-Designer’s Design Book.

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PS Oh, and you probably don’t need for me to tell you this, but. . . for all you wannabe cowboys out there . . .I’m afraid the flyer is a fake.

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*As I’ve said before, yes, THE Robin Williams (and, no, not the actor)

**Prior to working at Mothering, I had the opportunity to work with Robin on a few projects, including this book. Fabulous, fun, and edifying experience. . .

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that age-old question. . .

November 6th, 2009

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Do you quarantine the ugly, or do you scatter the ugly?
—Ad Production Manager Melyssa Holik, a.k.a. Mel, struggling with how to lay out less than aesthetically pleasing ads

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Photo of November leaves on our street. Because it would be cruel—to all concerned—to post examples of that to which Mel was referring. . .

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and now for a word about white space

November 6th, 2009

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The way I see it, white space is kind of like the yard or grounds around a stately home. Sure, you could make do without all that lawn . .

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but why would you want to?new-plantation-2

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Photos from istockphoto.com

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