Laura Egley Taylor

Then a miracle occurs . . .

that age old question. . .

November 6th, 2009

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Do you quarantine the ugly, or do you scatter the ugly?
—Ad Production Manager Melyssa Holik, a.k.a. Mel, struggling with how to lay out less than aesthetically pleasing ads

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Photo of November leaves on our street. Because it would be cruel—to all concerned—to post examples of that to which Mel was referring. . .

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and now for a word about white space

November 6th, 2009

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The way I see it, white space is kind of like the yard or grounds around a stately home. Sure, you could make do without all that lawn . .

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but why would you want to?new-plantation-2

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Photos from istockphoto.com

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wee-hour homiletic

November 4th, 2009

snoozersI’m lying on my back in the dark, in bed, arms at my sides, covers up to my chin. Brutus, our two-year-old orange tabby, climbs onto my chest, scooting up so that his face is close to mine. Through the thick comforter, I can feel his warmth from my belly to my neck. He is purring. I’m effectively pinned by his weight and my sense of his affection, his catness.

Soon after, there’s a movement near my left arm, and it’s Twombly,* our 5-month-old kitten;  never very far behind Brutus, his perpetual sidekick.

Twombly settles in on my upper arm, purring more loudly than Brutus, leaning toward him, resting his kitten head on the bigger cat’s flank. Then the ritual begins. Brutus stretches out a front leg—reaching with his paw, claws retracted—and softly pats me on the chin. Twombly squirms up my arm to get a little closer, then reaches out his paw, claws in, and pats me on the chin, as well, his rhythmic purrs so loud I think he’ll wake Tim.

I thrill to this. Not because it’s a unique occurrence (happens almost nightly) but because not so long ago both of these cats were feral kittens who showed up at our back door, tiny and trembling and in search of food—lured, we figured, by the smell of our other cats. Each was terrified of us, would start at the slightest movement and dart away, through the cat door and back into the seeming safety of the outdoor world.

brutus-and-twomblyIt’s hard to remember now, but shortly after Brutus first showed up, I awoke in the early hours and saw that he was sleeping with our cats on the daybed where they congregate (a.k.a. “the kitty divan”). As I crept over to get a better look, Brutus awoke, saw me, and leapt to the floor, heading  for the door. I bent down and (not really thinking) scooped him up, wanting to reassure him, I guess. Well, 14 puncture wounds and a couple of days later, I was at the urgent care clinic with swollen purple fingers, getting shots. (Afterwards, I found online a site where an expert likened handling a feral kitten to wrestling with an animated cactus. Believe it.)

That was two years ago; Brutus is now a beloved part of our household, the most affectionate of all the cats we’ve had. And now Twombly appears to be following suit, still a little skittish when we humans are vertical, but coming along nicely, thanks to Brutus.

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*Named for Cy.

Photos were shot on my cell phone early this morning, once I managed to extricate an arm.

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and another . . .

November 3rd, 2009

seaview fabulous reader photo from the current issue, that is.

This shot of Kenann Thompson, of Takoma Park, Maryland, was taken while she was exploring a cave in Barbados while wearing her two-year-old daughter in a baby carrier on her back.

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readers’ photos

November 3rd, 2009

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The quality of photos sent in by readers with their letters to the editor seems to have improved markedly over the last few years.

Here’s a stunning shot from the new November-December issue of reader Erin Riggio, of Tacoma, Washington, taken by her brother in Assisi, Italy, as she was breastfeeding her son.

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behind the scenes @ issue 157

November 2nd, 2009

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Our new November-December issue includes a very exciting article by Diana Lynn about intuition: how to raise one’s child in a way that supports the development of his or her intuitive sense.

The article lists some websites with exercises designed to hone intuition. Ad production manager/ staff photographer/web design maven Melyssa Holik and I found this fact very exciting. But, under deadline at the time, we promised ourselves we’d visit the sites later. Meanwhile, Mel said, let’s just practice with simple stuff: “What number am I thinking of? between 1 and 10?”

“7,” I responded without thinking.

“Right.”

“OK, what number am I thinking of?” I asked her in turn.

“3?”

“Yep.”

We both went back to work. (We’re still planning to visit those intuition-training sites, one of these days.)

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that time again

November 1st, 2009

cover-158November 1. New month, new issue of the magazine on the stands—and not just any issue: our annual review of natural toys. Which means, of course, that the holidays are very soon comin’ down the pike. . .

Shot by NYC/Toronoto photographer Lise Varrette, our new cover photo features a cutie from Toronto named Harmony, holding her beloved Sophie the Giraffe.

When Lise first showed me this photo, I said “Very nice, but we can’t have a plastic toy on the cover!”

Which shows how out of touch I am: Sophie, who has been around since 1961, is NOT made of plastic. Sophie is made of “100% natural rubber derived from the sap of the Hevea Tree;” her color comes from food-quality paint. Get the full story here.

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a little Halloween cheer

November 1st, 2009

punkinQuiet Halloween this year. Tim was sick, so we lay low, stayed in, carved a tiny ornamental pumpkin into a cheery pumpkin face (which, after an hour, surprisingly—but appropriately—started drooling white wax).

We read Edgar Allen Poe by candelight, with interruptions by one trick-or-treater (which thrilled us—one more than we’ve gotten in past years) and  our neighbor, dressed as a satyr, horned and bare-chested with hairy goat-leg pants (on his way to a party, checking to make sure his bare belly was “not too much?”). Watched some “scary” old stuff on Youtube, thoroughly enjoying “Teenagers from Outer Space” and “The Cobweb Hotel.”

All in all, a frightfully lovely night.

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boldly going there

October 30th, 2009

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From ThinkGeek via the ever-hilarious daddy blogger DaddyTypes.

While this may not seem to be the kind of thing I’d normally feel compelled to blog about, I have to confess that—although we never had a TV— I spent many hours watching rented Star Trek videos with Reeve when he was little. And was thorougly taken with the lessons found in each episode (and I’m talking about ALL the series): inclusivity, respect for all beings, women in leadership roles, racial and religious tolerance . . .

So, nice “uniforms,” but I’m not sure I’d be comfortable giving a baby a red one. . .

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sneak peek at what’s ahead

October 30th, 2009

sophiaisabellaemmaI usually try not to divulge the contents of an upcoming issue til it hits the stands. But can’t resist posting a hint or two about a fun new feature in our upcoming November-December magazine.

Hint #1: Illustrations at right.

Hint #2: Everything old is new again! No, I’m not old enough to remember these, but I’m really fond of magazines from the 1950s. . .

On the stands November 1, or you can preorder here.

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Illustrations by Melyssa Holik.

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