Well, I am determined to use cloth, just b/c I've set this little goal of having a baby who has NEVER had a sposie on his bum, lol.
From almost everybody who has reported in here, the consensus seems to be that meconium is not the huge deal we think it is. In fact, there is a thread here about...oh darn...the baby's name is Anika, lol....her newborn dipes and she also says meconium was No Big Deal and she's glad she got lots of n/b fitteds.
If you are not going to be in hospital for long, I say go for it. You can, as you say, just bring a bag and take them home. I really think that it is YOUR decision as to whether to use cloth or not. You are the one going to birth the baby and be in the hospital and I think you get final say!
I'm going to be in for four days (C/S) but luckily my DH is totally on board with the cloth, and he has offered to take the dirty ones home each day, wash them, and bring them back (he is a SAHD right now, so he's an expert at CDing).
Oh, and of course the BIGGEST reason to use cloth in the hospital is the CONVERT factor. The nurses will be drooling over them, I'm sure!!