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JJ Cole Mode Diaper Bag Giveaway!

May 25th, 2010

I promised you that I’d get more diaper bag giveaways goin’ on around here, and I am stoked to present this JJ Cole Mode Blue Vine diaper bag. It is SO SWEET, I can barely bring myself to not run off with it into the sunset. Just kidding. Mostly.
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According to the JJ Cole Collections website, “The Mode includes twelve pockets inside and out for organizing. Depending on preference, the Mode allows for three carrying options including two tote straps, a removable padded shoulder strap, or stroller attachments for a no-slip grip to your stroller handle.”

• easy-to-clean laminated canvas
• removable, padded shoulder strap
• two front zipper pockets
• back pocket for all your changing needs
• coordinating changing pad included

It’s also PVC- and pthalate-free, 14.5″ wide, x 13.5″ high x 5″ deep. And most laptops would fit in it. And…I think I’ll throw some yummy products in there too–some butt balms and other goodies.

So please leave a comment below to enter this contest. If you have a sec, tell me what kinds of articles you’d like to see more of in Mothering.

And please consider donating your extra/stored cloth diapers to our mama-to-mama cloth diaper matchmaker program, which has currently helped over 30 moms in less than a week. I’m so grateful to the women who have so generously sent cloth diapers to mamas who are in need–and for the needin’ mamas who have spoken up, to be those squeaky wheels who are now able to be green and keep sposies off their babies’ butts. If you have cloth diapers to donate, please email me at candacew@mothering.com (with a description of the size and type of dipes you have) and I will match you up with a mama pronto.


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Guest Blogger Patty James on Eating the Rainbow

May 20th, 2010

ROYGBIV: The Color of Health
By Patty James

Why is it important to eat lots of different colored fruits and vegetables? Because each colored vegetable and fruit has unique properties and there is strong evidence that there are interactions between the colors that are beneficial to your health. Eating by the Rainbow is vitally important to your well-being.

Here are the colors:

Red foods contain lycopene that helps rid the body of damaging free radicals, protects against prostate cancer, as well as heart and lung disease. The red foods are loaded with antioxidants thought to protect against heart disease by preventing blood clots and may also delay the aging of cells in the body.

Tomatoes
Beets
Radishes
Red cabbage
Cherries
Cranberries
Pink grapefruit
Red grapes
Red peppers
Pomegranates
Red potatoes
Watermelon
Raspberries
Red apples
Rhubarb
Strawberries

Orange and Yellow foods contain alpha carotene, which protects against cancer, but also contain beta-carotene, which the body converts to vitamin A protecting the skin against free-radical damage. Beta-carotene is also good for night vision.

Yams and sweet potatoes
Carrots
Yellow apples
Apricots
Butternut squash
Cantaloupe
Carrots
Grapefruit
Lemons
Mangoes
Nectarines
Oranges and Tangerines
Papayas
Peaches
Pears
Yellow peppers
Persimmons
Pineapple
Pumpkin
Yellow summer or winter squash
Sweet corn
Yellow tomatoes

Green foods contain the chemicals that help ward off cancer by inhibiting carcinogens. Chlorophyll is the component that makes plant green, and is purifying in the body. Many green foods also contain calcium and minerals.

Kale, spinach and other leafy greens
Green apples
Artichokes
Sea vegetables
Asparagus
Avocados
Green beans
Broccoli
Brussels sprouts
Green cabbage
Cucumbers
Green grapes
Kiwi
Lettuce
Limes
Green onions
Peas
Zucchini

Blue, Indigo and Violet foods contain the compound anthocyanins that not only give food their color but also have been shown to reduce the risk of high blood pressure and increasing heart health.

Blueberries
Blackberries
Purple grapes
Figs
Raisins
Plums, fresh and dried
Eggplant

White, though not part of the color of the rainbow, foods contain properties that have anti-tumor qualities, such as allicin in onions as well as other health-improving antioxidants such as the flavanoids. The white foods, bananas and potatoes, contain potassium as well.

Bananas
Onions
Cauliflower
Garlic
Ginger
Jicama
Mushrooms
Potatoes
Parsnips
Turnips

So how do you do incorporate these fruits and vegetables into your daily eating habits?

Here are some sample menus for you to get you started:

Breakfast:

An orange. Sauté 1/2 red pepper, ½ onion, 2 shitake mushrooms, 2 cloves garlic. Add 3 cups leafy greens (spinach leaves are fine) and 3 eggs. Cook until eggs are done and serve.
Strawberries. Oatmeal made with cubed butternut squash or pureed pumpkin, topped with raw walnut pieces and raw pumpkin seeds.

Lunch:

Turkey sandwich on whole grain bread with sprouts, lettuce, tomato slices, avocado and grated carrots. Serve with a 2-cup salad made with romaine lettuce and raw cauliflower, broccoli and garbanzo beans.
Spinach salad topped with black olives, cherry tomatoes, cucumbers, green onions, and cauliflower. Add beans or chicken if you like. Toss with fresh lemon juice and either olive oil or flax oil or a combination of the two. Sprinkle fresh parsley, chopped, on top.

Dinner:

Grilled fish or chicken breast or black beans and brown rice (protein). Coleslaw made with green and red cabbage with red onions and grated carrots. Baked yam.
Pasta primavera made with spinach fettuccini, sautéed red peppers, onions, garlic, zucchini, carrots, and whatever else is in season.

Snack:

1 cup blueberries and cantaloupe
Jicama slices with salsa and Celery with hummus or peanut or almond butter
Pineapple chunks and banana slices
Raw veggies with your favorite dip. Hummus is a good choice.
Tangerine slices with herb tea

Remember that you need 5-9 cups of vegetables and fruits a day for good health. Make sure at least half of your veggies are raw. Don’t forget that juicing can incorporate many colored fruits and veggies easily and may be a good choice for those who may not be able to chew raw fruits and veggies.

Patty is a Certified Natural Chef with a Master’s degree in Holistic Nutrition and was founder and director of the Patty James Cooking School and Nutrition Center, the first certified organic cooking school and nutrition center in the country. She created the Patty James Health Guide, a guide to life-long healthy eating and lifestyle. Patty is a frequent guest speaker in public and private schools around the US, the Clinton Foundation in New York, as well as to health practitioners and organizations. Patty runs Shine the Light On America’s Kids, an organization whose mission is to shine the light on all aspects of kids health in America. She is the author of More Vegetables, Please!

Website: www.PattyJames.com and www.ShineTheLightOnKids.org

More Vegetables, Please! can be purchased from www.amazon.com and through any major bookseller


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Thirsties Duo Winners Announced!

May 20th, 2010

Warm Stripes 1: Christina R.
Warm Stripes 2: Megan

Alice Brights 1: Debbie G.
Alice Brights 2: Claudia R-C

Blackbird 1: Jessa
Blackbird 2: Cassie

Cool Stripes 1: Jenny
Cool Stripes 2: SM C.

I have sent the winners emails notifying them…if you are one of them and you don’t get an email, check to see if the email you use when posting comments is correct.


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Cloth Diaper Matchmaker for Mamas in Need?

May 18th, 2010

Dear Mamas,

Please tell me what you think of this idea. In the course of reading comments I have been very touched by hearing from women who want to cloth diaper but are really low on funds and can’t afford to get that stash together.

If you have some cloth diapers that your baby has grown out of, would you be interested in being matched up with a cloth diapering-wannabe mama who is in need of receiving some? I’d be willing to put you in touch with each other. Let me know.

UPDATE: What a great response! So far I’ve matched up 27 mamas in need with awesomely generous cloth diaper donors! I still need cloth diapers, though, if you have any to donate.

I am still trying to help moms find the following:

-a mama with an 8-month old who has only six diapers
-cloth diapers for a petite 17-month girl baby
-pocket diapers for a 10 month old who is 20 lbs. (I was able to connect her with a donation of 2 diapers but would like to send her more)
-medium or 1-size for a 20-lb girl
-cloth diapers for a 2-year-old girl
- diapers for an 11 month old, could also use a wet bag : )
-18 month old who is 23 months
-6 month-old boy who is 13-15 lbs.
-8-month-old boy
-and several expecting mamas

There are some more mamas that I have to put on my “needing” list but I’ve connected all of the new donor mamas with mamas in need. So please donate if you have cloth diapers to give. Email me at candacew@mothering.com or leave a comment with a description of the cloth diapers you have available.


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Bright, Colorful Thirsties Duo Diapers Giveaway!

May 18th, 2010

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Good Morning, Cloth Diaperistas!

Today I am giving away 4 Thirsties Duo Diapers. Each pocket diaper comes with a duo microfiber/hemp/cotton insert. (You can also stuff the diaper with a prefold.)

Please mention your preference of cover pattern and size. Please note: I only have diapers with Aplix closures (top row, above).

Choices are:
Alice Brights (flowers)
Warm Stripes (pink, orange, purple)
Blackbird (trees)
Cool Stripes (blue, green, brown)

And I have sizes One (6-18 lbs.) and Two (18-40 lbs.)

Here’s some description: “The durable Aplix closures of Thirsties Duo Diaper provide a snug and secure fit at every diaper change. Thirsties’ signature leg gussets provide advanced leak-proof protection. Each of the two sizes feature three rows of snaps to adjust the rise to your baby’s shape; it really is like having THREE sizes in one.”

You can enter by leaving a comment below. And if you want to, let me know how you discovered Mothering and/or tell me about someone you’ve turned on to the Mothering.


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Announcing the GroVia and Bambino Mio Winners! Plus Sneak Peek of Upcoming Giveaways…

May 17th, 2010

GroVia #1: Wai Yi Choi

GroVia #2: (I know, I didn’t say I had two sets of GroVia goodies. I’m sneaky like that sometimes) Robin Sayers

Bambino Mio Newborn: Liz Thomas

Bambino Mio Small: Lara Stapleford

I’ll be back soon with giveaways of more cloth diapers (AppleCheeks are on their way, as are Nicki’s Diapers and more) and diaper bags (Oi Oi, BabyMel, and possibly JJCole Collections…)


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Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary, How Does Your Garden Grow?

May 17th, 2010
High Country Gardens' Jumbo Waterwise Garden. A girl can dream.

High Country Gardens' Jumbo Waterwise Garden. A girl can dream.

Spring and I did not get off to a good start. The pollen (worst season in years) kicked me in the head every time I inhaled. I am not sure if these things helped:

3-4 packets of Emergen-C daily (Lally’s doctor recommends)
1-2 tbsp. of Barlean’s Lemon Omega Swirl (an anti-inflammatory)
Seasonal Freedom herbal pills (lessens reactiveness to pollen)
Neti Pot (rinses out pollen gunk)

But I did get better within a matter of days.

So now, I can enjoy the things I’ve managed to plant in my rock-hard soil over the last 2 years. Secret: after the first summer’s chiseling, I reverted to doing a lot of planting in containers. Not only is the soil soft and less miserably clay-ey, I can take them with me to my next abode.

I’ve learned a lot about…a lot in my garden quest. Previous to owning this house, I lived in places where things were minimalist, but in place. Much of Santa Fe landscaping can rely on naturally occurring grasses, cacti (cholla, not Saguaro–that’s Arizona), and low pinon trees.

I moved in to my current neighborhood, which has small adjoining front yards, much of them covered in gray rocks the size of large grapes. In the idiom of the neighborhood, apparently all the better to park on should your car count exceed the two-three of most households. I assumed nobody really cared about landscaping too much and let nature take its course. Oh. Silly me. The erstwhile neighborhood association president (there’s no neighborhood association, although I wish there was one) told me that I needed to get rid of the weeds because my neighbors care about property values. Okay…

I went to a very pissy and contrary place internally, although I said the bare minimum in my polite voice to get him on to the next malefactor. A few days later, I went to the store and got some gardening gloves…and some for the kids, too. We commenced weeding. Big tall honker weeds with spiky leaves. Wispy grasses that seem to come out of the ground already dried up and dad. Hunks of dense hairy grass that need to be dug out with a trowel. Sweet little posies and tall, stalky columnar flowers. I left the flowers where they were. Who decides what’s a weed and what deserves to be cultivating?

My yard is also quite popular with a kind of grass that goes to seed in such a way that it throws off these monstrous little rolling balls of spikes. Think mini-tumbleweed, which is so flimsy that it doesn’t sweep up, finds its way into the house, and loves to pile up in front of my front door like a bunch of small party-seekers waiting for the keg to arrive before blowing in. “You might want to pull those,” my neighbor told me. “They make their way into gardening gloves and dog paws and they HURT.”

“Oh, is that where those roll-y things come from?” I asked, feeling cream-puffy and not in the know. “That’s a shame, because the grasses are so pretty.”

“Yeah, they’re pretty, but they’re a pain in the ass. You can pull them or just cut off the tops before they go to seed. Your neighbors would probably appreciate it if you did.”

Oh, okay, my neighbors. Let me get right on that. Again, I felt internally pissy, but this year I’ve been out there with the weedwacker, beheading the offending, aggressive grasses. Not pulling them. Just de-clawing them.

One area that got me thinking was the “hell strip,” aka the rectangle between the road and the sidewalk that is in many ways more like public property but is mine for the designing.

I fantasized about High Country Garden’s lnferno Strip Kits, which have a ready-planned assortment of flowers for those dimensions, but worried at the price ($170!!!) and the amount of digging I’d have to do. Then I thought about making a container garden there out of wood planks and metal joints (joints? you know what I mean). Laura worried about the boards warping. That could be a mess, and a public mess at that.

I went with 3 sedums backed with 3 Mexican grass tufts. One of the Mexican grass tufts died–the one in the middle. So considerate of that one to kick the bucket since it preserves the symmetry. However, I really should get another one. When the sedums are blooming in the late summer, it looks really wonderful. And then they stick around, almost like living dried flowers, through many snowfalls. Nothing more poignant that seeing those sedum blooms coated in snow, but holding up quite fine, thank you, with a face full of wet mush.

The weeds that favor that area look more like ground cover, so I just snip at them instead of ripping them all out. I also have to pick up a modicum of cigarette butts, empty mini booze bottles, and other passerby flotsam and jetsam. Some of it is just the wind…and some of it is bad manners. Welcome to maintaining public space.

I initially bought five Russian Sages, because I love the way they fill out. They get to be at least 4′x4′x4′, and they’re a lovely combination of dusty lavender and green. I placed two against my adobe-walled house for good contrast. The other two did not make it, by virtue of their placement. One struggled because it was too close to the front walkway and got trampled. The other was in a place where it didn’t get enough sun, then I moved it and it got too much sun. If I baby it this season, it might just come back. I see some leaves down there. The fifth one is doing pretty well, but a rosebush decided to up and grow in the exact same place. They’re intertwined right now and I hope they both benefit from their symbiosis. They’d be like a living flower arrangement if they both bloomed at the same time. I’m not one to interfere…

Last summer, I bought an impulse oleander. It did wonderfully all summer but couldn’t get through the Santa Fe winter. That poor honey got pulled out and I planted a delphinium in its place–which the garden hose bonked a couple of times, so now it has a few less branches. I’m hoping the plant will interpret it as pruning and come back with a lot of determination.

My penstemons are bushy and lively so far, but haven’t come up with any blooms. I know they will at some point. My wine-red yarrows, in a big flower pot, are just about to pop. They’re tall and have lots of clustered buds shooting out in all directions.

I just brought out my bougainvillea from the indoors to the garden. It goes back and forth. Never is it happier than in August, when the monsoons drench it every afternoon, and then the hot morning sun dries it out to a near crisp. Repeat. It likes extremes. I can’t believe I kept that thing alive for 3 years! I used to be completely useless when it came to plants. Right now, my bougainvillea is about 4 1/2 feet tall, and I am looking forward to it blooming. Purple flowers everywhere, with gorgeous stamens. Except that the “purple flowers” are actually leaves, and the stamen-looking things are the flowers.

My back yard has a giant mint bush that seems to have come out of nowhere. It has fuzzy purple blooms on it. I’m so happy it turned up. An uninvited guest who is welcome to stay. As a gardening novice, I have come to realize that I shouldn’t obsess about the plants that don’t make it, but nurture the ones that manage to stick around. I should also write down what I plant, because I have a planter with two different plants in it and I cannot for the life of me remember what the heck they are. Like my newfound gardening habit, at least they appear to be thriving.


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Cloth Diaper Giveaway: GroVia and Bambino Mio! (Complete, winners drawn)

May 14th, 2010

Good morning, sweet mamas.

This morning, we have for you…

The GroVia giveaway:

-1 all-in-one, one-size cloth diaper by GroVia (formerly GroBaby) in the color vanilla
-1 package of 12 GroVia reusable cloth wipes
and
-1 GroVia Magic Stick (all-natural diaper ointment)
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and
The Bambino Mio Giveaway

One Newborn (up to 11 pounds) Bambino Mio Intro Kit, which includes:
-3 prefolds
-1 cover with a stars design
-50 liners
-miofresh laundry sanitizer
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and
One Small (11-16 pounds) Bambino Mio Intro Kit, which includes:
-3 prefolds
-1 cover with a stars design
-50 liners
-miofresh laundry sanitizer

All you need to do to enter to win is leave a comment below with your preference (GroVia One-Size, Bambino Mio Newborn, or Bambino Mio Small). And if you feel like it, mention a memorable Mothering article–print or online. Besos!


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Happy Anniversary?

May 13th, 2010

Little Me, May 13, 2000

Little Me, May 13, 2000


Ten years ago today, I got married. In a church, with all of the trimmings. My wedding cake had more ruffles than my dress.

“Happy anniversary!” my ex-husband said merrily this morning, on the phone, as we discussed kid details. We’re still co-parents, though no longer spouses.

I kind of want to celebrate, but feel hemmed in by what’s expected of me–or that nothing’s expected of me. I’m maybe supposed to feel bad. Mournful. I did have a verklempt moment, but overall, I feel happy. I love being a mama to my two children. I never would have moved to Santa Fe, gotten hired on at Mothering, or met my soul mate and partner, Laura (not the art director here– my Laura), if I hadn’t stood on those stone steps ten years ago today, while our assorted nearest and dearest blew soap bubbles at us. One thing had to follow the other to land me on this particular square of life path–this particular square of “I love my life” path.

(Peter might still have met his new lady love–she has a gallery here and his father does, too.)

But, I’d probably still be in my Lower East Side walk-up apartment, or at least on the East Coast, suffering from Seasonal Affective Disorder and super-frizzy hair, thanks to the lack of sun and surfeit of humidity.

Cheers to celebrating anniversaries even when the initiating wedding has morphed into a whole different scenario. My instincts were right, even though my vision for my life back in 2001 turned out to be an illusion.

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PS: The kids look sunburned here, but they’re just flushed from the heat. I actually had my SPF act together that day : )


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The Kushies Whimsy Diaper Bag Winner is…

May 12th, 2010

Amy. Congrats, you lucky mama!

In case there is more than one Amy, the Amy selected left a comment at 6:28 am on 5/8. I sent out an email.

Man, I wish I had 144 bags to give away. This particular giveaway has inspired me to set up more diaper bag giveaways…consider me officially on it.


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