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Dear Naomi, we have two children (5 and 3). My husband wants to go on holiday for one week without us but with friends. My doctor, who I consulted because of problems with my stomach, advised me to do the same and go away for a week without him. But is that ok for the kids who are used to being with me almost all day long? Lucy
Dear Lucy,
It sounds like you and your husband are having difficulties. The solution is not evening up with him, punishing, teaching a “lesson” or showing him that you can do it too. If you want to heal your relationship with your husband, think of ways to connect with him. Show interest in understanding him, and stay authentic in your relationship with your children.
If you listen to your own heart, I dare to guess that you would not want to leave your child for even one night. Since they have always been with you, which is wonderful, you will not enjoy being away from them. You will rightly feel very anxious knowing that they need you. Even one overnight would be difficult for them.
I hope your find a way to connect with your husband without disconnecting from your children.
Warmly, http://authenticparent.com/index.html