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Child-made Valentine’s Day Card Display

Posted on February 3rd, 2012 by | Find Out More About Celebrate Green

by Lynn Colwell & Corey Colwell-Lipson

What to do with the Valentine’s Day cards and gifts your child makes at home or brings home from school? Stick ‘em in a drawer? Seal ‘em in a box?

Instead, how about turning them into Valentine’s Day decor? (Items saved from previous years may be used as well.)

In my house, we used an empty mantle and a bare stick-wreath as the “blank canvas”. My daughter, Zoe, was allowed to decorate the area as she pleased. She had fun with the process and, in the end, was so proud of the display and the seasonal mood it conjured.

I have a feeling this activity will become a new family tradition.

Zoe placing classmates’ handmade cards on the mantle.

Friend, Michael, thinks the card needs to be moved “a little to the right.”

Handmade cards, seed packs, a candle and stones were the Valentine’s Day gifts Zoe received from her friends at school.

Zoe added this little blue bird to the mix.

An empty wreath adds a unique twist to displaying cherished items.

The final result? Heartwarming.

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For simple, practical, affordable (and fun!) ways to celebrate a “meaningfully green” Valentine’s Day (crafts, recipes, decor & more), check out the Celebrate Green! Blog.

Lynn Colwell and Corey Colwell-Lipson are mother and daughter and authors of  Celebrate Green! Creating Eco-Savvy Holidays, Celebrations and Traditions for the Whole Family, and founders of Green Halloween®. Connect with Lynn & Corey on Facebook and Twitter.


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The Homeopathic Approach to Epidemics

Posted on February 2nd, 2012 by | Find Out More About Amy Lansky

by Amy L. Lansky, PhD

(for more information about homeopathy, visit www.impossiblecure.com)

While the homeopathic treatment of disease is almost always an individualized process, it is fortunate that the treatment of epidemics is usually more straightforward and streamlined. Indeed, it is the success of homeopathy in treating epidemics that led to its popularity and spread worldwide during the 1800s. In essence, the strategy is to treat each epidemic as a single case of disease. This is possible because most people who fall prey to an epidemic tend to have the same symptoms.

The treatment process goes something like this. First, homeopaths gather the symptoms of several patients (not just their physical symptoms, but their emotional, mental, and behavioral symptoms as well) and come up with a small set of remedies (usually between 2 and 5 remedies) that best match this collective set of symptoms. Often, homeopaths work together to find this key set of epidemic remedies, which is called the genus epidemicus. Then, when a particular client comes in for treatment, it is relatively easy to choose which one of this small set of remedies best fits them. Over time, if one particular remedy predominates as the curative remedy, it can also be used prophylactically to prevent the disease in the first place.

Here are a few more important points about this process:

  • Not every instance of the same type of epidemic will have the same genus epidemicus. Thus, one flu season may be cured by a particular set of remedies, and another flu season will be cured by another set. Nevertheless, because specific remedies may repeatedly come up for a particular disease, these remedies can often be used prophylactically with success.
  • The kinds of symptom information provided by conventional medical sources like the CDC is, unfortunately, insufficient to determine a good genus epidemicus. That is because emotional, mental, and behavior symptoms are omitted, as well as the particularities of physical symptoms that are key for making a good homeopathic prescription. These include: time and speed of onset, causative factors, lethargy vs. restlessness, thirstiness vs. thirstlessness, patterns of heat and sweating in the body, the specific nature of excretions, sleep patterns, things that improve or aggravate symptoms, as well as many other kinds of symptoms essential to homeopathic prescribing.
  • Homeopathic treatment of epidemic disease (and other disease) does not require precise identification of the cause of a disease to be effective. This is because treatment is based on the symptoms being experienced, not on the identity of the virus, bacteria, parasite, or other pathogen. Indeed, this is a very handy and wonderful aspect of homeopathic medicine! In fact, the former director of the Office of Alternative Medicine at NIH, Wayne Jonas, MD, testified before Congress in November 2001 that homeopathy should be seriously considered for the after effects of bio-terrorism for this very reason.

Why not consider using homeopathy if your family gets the flu this year?  It could be a lifesaver. During the horrific 1918 flu epidemic, homeopathic practitioners had a death rate of only 1%, whereas conventional physicians had a death rate of 30%.

Below are four remedies that have been used successfully in treating the flu, along with some differentiating features.

Nux-Vomica
A key symptom is irritability and oversensitivity, especially to noise and light. Flu might be preceded by anger or indignation, or be precipitated by overwork. Very cold — wants to stay under the covers. Desires warm drinks. Shivering. Headache from noise and light. Fatigue and collapse. May want to keep working even when sick. Stomach upset, gas, diarrhea.

Gelsemium
The number one flu remedy (also the remedy that was curative for the 1918 flu epidemic). Totally weak and prostrate, almost paralytic weakness. Droopy eyes — can hardly keep them open. Legs feel weak and shaky — doesn’t want to get out of bed. A slow onset. Flu might be preceded by worry over an upcoming event or task. Sore throat. Bursting headache beginning in the neck, then extending over head to eyes and forehead. Headache relieved by urinating. Aching muscular pain. Thirstlessness. Chills up and down the spine. Better from fresh air and urinating.

Ferrum-Phosphoricum
Good to consider when none of the other flu remedies match well. A mid-grade fever — 102-103F. Flushed face. Headache better from cold applications. Burning sensation in eyes. Stuffiness. Nose bleeds. Red swollen throat. Cough better at night. Sour burps, vomiting of undigested food. Aversion to meat and milk. Stiff neck. Restless and sleepless. Chill at 1pm. Worse from being touched or jarred.

China
A good remedy for extreme prostration after loss of fluids — for example, from vomiting or diarrhea. A state of collapse with chilliness. Often used for after-effects of a debilitating flu. Sensitive to touch, motion, cold air. Worse periodically — for example, alternate days. Weary limbs. Painless diarrhea with lots of gas.

There are, of course, many other common flu remedies and one of them might be correct for your particular case of flu. Other commonly used remedies for the flu include: Aconite (quick onset, fear), Eupatorium (deep aching and pain in the bones), Arsenicum (very anxious, restless, and thirsty), and Bryonia (crabby, thirsty, and worse from any movement whatsoever).

To find out more about homeopathic treatment of the flu, visit the web site of the National Center for Homeopathy to read several handy articles.  Another excellent flu article was published in the Huffington Post in 2011.


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3 simple questions to simplify success

Posted on February 1st, 2012 by | Find Out More About Danielle LaPorte

1. What do you do (that gives you joy, because why bother if it doesn’t bring you joy)?
2. Who cares about what you do?
3. How do you get to who cares?

That’s it – three essential, monumental questions for every entrepreneur. Whether you’re a hairstylist or a blogger, a lawyer or a widget seller, it’s the simplest questions that will illuminate the way. I’ve been using this inquiry strategy for years to build businesses and it never fails to light up what the top priorities are.

Like most simple things, you have to examine each question from every angle to fully glean its elegance and power. No matter what stage of growth your company is in, the answers to these questions should drive your daily actions.

Let’s use a hairstylist for example. {I happen to think hair stylists are seriously powerful citizens. You want to firmly plant an idea in the minds of thousands of people? Tell a hairdresser. He or she has the rapt attention of dozens of people a week. Salons are hotbeds of news and inspiration.} Back to success…

ROLE PLAY WITH A HAIR STYLIST

YOUR PRODUCTS + SERVICES. Most entrepreneurs actually “do” more than they perceive. Examine the benefits and the unintended positive consequences of what you give or make. Look for the deeper meaning of the result of your work.

1. What do you do (that gives you joy)?
Stylist says: “I cut hair.”
Me: No, really, what do you do?
Stylist: “I make people feel beautiful.”
Me: Uh huh. You’re getting it.
Stylist: “I’m a healer who happens to give highlights.”
Me: If you say so, then BINGO!

YOUR MARKET. Pay careful attention to who you actually attract … how do the people who buy your services or use your content/product see the world, what do they read, where do they shop, who do they listen to, what are their values?

2. Who cares about what you do?
Stylist: “Humans with hair.”
Me: Could you be more specific?
Stylist: “Women…People who want to look great…Women between 20 and 50 who want the best possible cut and colour for under $100 … and like to talk about personal growth and baking.”
Me: Excellent. That is YOUR market. And the only market you need to care about is your own.

MARKETING TO YOUR MARKET. Effectively accessing your audience means that you’re reaching as much of your market with the least amount of effort. Quality + Quantity + Leverage. Repeat that to yourself before you spending a dime on marketing. Look for leverage points, vocalizers, mavens, influencers to spread the word for you … from the right trade show or celebrity, to the local socialite or class president.

3. How do you access who cares?
Stylist: “With business cards and an ad in the yellow pages.”
Me: Is that how the majority of YOUR market comes to you?
Stylist: “I get my very best clients by word of mouth referrals.”
Me: Whose word brings you YOUR market?
Stylist: “Becky the Realtor tells everyone. Janice is a total maven, she’s sent me at least ten clients. And Josie with the bakery and the flaming red bob … she’s so well connected.”
Me: Great. Give them each a free hair cut and a stack of business cards.

The formula for success is usually so simple it takes some time to really see it. The answers may take a while to find. Keep peeling back the layers until you come to the most elegant truth. Because the truth is what works. Simple.

. . . . . . .

Danielle LaPorte is the author of the forthcoming book The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful + Practical Guide for Creating Success on Your Own Terms (from Random House/Crown). An inspirational speaker, former think tank exec and business strategist, she is the creator of the online program The Spark Kit: A Digital Experience for Entrepreneurs + co-creator of Your Big Beautiful Book Plan.. Over a million visitors have gone for her straight-up advice on DanielleLaPorte.com, a site that has been deemed “the best place on-line for kick-ass spirituality.”

You can find her on Twitter @daniellelaporte

 


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Valentine Craft: simple and eco-friendly felted valentine heart craft for kids

Posted on January 31st, 2012 by | Find Out More About Melanie Mayo-Laakso | Mothering.com

Love this unique Valentine craft!

Corey Colwell-Lipson from Celebrate Green and Green Halloween shows us how to felt valentine heart necklaces.  This craft is a creative and eco-friendly way to present something special to your child’s school class, homeschool group, or to friends and family for Valentine’s day. Easy enough for the older kids to do on their own, and with some help at any age.

 


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Steel Cut Oats

Posted on January 30th, 2012 by | Find Out More About Cookus Interruptus

(Steve boldly alters the recipe)
What are most American breakfasts missing?  Fiber, fat and protein.  Not on Cookus Interruptus.  Man up to a big bowl of hot oat cereal in the morning. Add raisins, nuts or do it the Steve way with peanut butter. To save time, soak oats the night before.  Cynthia splains it in the recipe…click here.


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Monday Hearts for Madalene

Posted on January 30th, 2012 by | Find Out More About Laura Grace Weldon

 

Monday Hearts For Madalene

Image: Page Hodel

 

A heart-shaped anything used to seem overly sentimental, even mawkish, to me until I encountered those created by Page Hodel. Her hearts are ephemeral and made from the unexpected, things like chile peppers, paper clips, postage stamps, kumquats, metal bolts, cast-off sneakers, green onions, all sorts of colorful objects.

The story behind her art is equally unexpected and poignant. Page is a disc jokey whose presence unifies and enlivens a crowd. Billboard magazine named her one of the country’s best. She also works for the non-profit organization, Rhythmic Concepts. Before she started making hearts her creative efforts took place on a larger scale. She renovated large vehicles and homes. Her life seemed full. Then she met her neighbor, Madalene Louise Rodriguez, a librarian and glass artist. The moment they met, they both fell in love. As Page writes,

There is something extraordinary about falling so deeply in love later in your life. The profound awareness of the miracle of finding the love you have looked for all your life, and the realization of how much you each have to share having lived so long and experienced so much.

 

Page began making hearts out of buttons, leaves, anything she could find to leave on Madalene’s doorstep late each Sunday night. That way when Madalene stepped out to go to work the next morning, she’d be greeting by a beautiful reminder of their love—a Monday heart.

Only seven months after they met, Madalene was diagnosed with late stage ovarian cancer. Page promised to continue making hearts for her each week, no matter what. Four months later Madalene died. Page never intended the hearts she created to be anything more than a private way of expressing her feelings. Thanks to a request by Madalene’s brother, she gradually began sending online photos of each week’s heart to loved ones, inviting them to forward the images to put more love out in the world.

Page initially refused offers to collect the photos into a book. The feeling associated with them was too painful. But she kept hearing from strangers whose lives were affected by the hearts. She realized that her love for Madalene could touch others.

Now you can find 100 hearts collected in a beautiful volume titled Monday Hearts for Madalene as well as a set of notecards. Page donates a portion of the proceeds from each sale to the Women’s Cancer Resource Center.  And anyone who would like to receive a weekly email with the newest Monday Hearts For Madalene, email  page.hodel@gmail.com with “subscribe” in the subject line.

Thanks to the love shared by Page and Madalene, hearts have taken on an entirely new meaning for me. What do they mean to you?


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Conferences inspire parents toward holistic health

Posted on January 27th, 2012 by | Find Out More About Jessica Claire Haney

Even as online forums, email lists, and blogs have become great resources for sharing knowledge about parenting and all things health-related, there’s something special about going to a conference. For holistic-minded parents, that’s especially true of a huge nutrition conference like Wise Traditions, put on annually in November by the Weston A. Price Foundation, and the smaller Fourfold Path to Healing conference coming to Baltimore next weekend.

When I attended the Weston A. Price Foundation’s Wise Traditions conference in 2007– on the topic of Radiant Health for Children and Their Parents — it was the first time I left my son for a large chunk of the day. There were plenty of moms with babies in slings and carriers, but I knew I wanted to give more attention to the presentations than my toddler would have allowed. It was such a relief when my friend and babysitter told me he’d slept in the sling for two hours while I got to focus on information I knew would benefit us both.

Conferences can be a little overwhelming, but I love that it’s impossible to feel like an outsider to the mainstream when you’re surrounded by some 1800 people who are just as invested as you are in questions about the health and wellbeing of our bodies, our children’s bodies, and the planet. Exhibit halls are places to learn about and try out new products, and in some cases, talk to the people who created them, or wrote the book, or author the blog. After lectures, there’s usually a chance to ask questions, sometimes of big-time speakers, and meals offer plenty of opportunities to share stories of healing and parenting.

As I watched Sally Fallon-Morell, author of Nourishing Traditions, speak about the work of pioneering dentist Weston A. Price, I was actually grateful for the health issues that had prompted me to turn around my diet. Facing infertility (amenorrhea), acne, depression, and Graves’ Disease (autoimmune hyperthyroidism) three years earlier, I had taken the advice of a nutritionist to give up my soy-based near-vegan diet and add in animal protein and fat. After my periods came back quickly on this more traditional foods diet, I later did a test that showed gluten and dairy sensitivity and saw a dramatic improvement in digestion and in my mental outlook on a gluten-free, casein-free (GFCF) diet.

Weston A. Price Foundation president Sally Fallon-Morell

I now believe that I owed the lifting of my depression, the remission of my Graves’ Disease, and my successful pregnancy to my return to a traditional foods diet. But all those years of undiagnosed celiac disease and of eating processed foods had really taken a toll on me, and the stress of the postpartum period after my second child’s birth brought those issues to the fore.  To address worsening symptoms of Irritable Bowel Syndrome, I turned to the grain-free, starch-free diet called the Gut and Psychology Syndrome (GAPS) diet, which makes use of lots of homemade bone broth and healthy fats.

This past fall, I had the chance to hear the Natasha Campbell-McBride, MD, the creator of the GAPS diet, speak at the 2011 Wise Traditions conference. Dr. Campbell-McBride gave a powerful presentation on how the diet helps reestablish healthy gut flora and build back up the gut lining. Problems in these areas can lead to a whole host of symptoms, including anemia, skin and neurological problems, allergies, asthma, anxiety, sleep disorders, hormonal abnormalities, and headaches. Healing the gut can translate into dramatic changes in mood, immune problems, sensory issues and autism spectrum disorders. It was for children on the spectrum that Campbell-McBride originally designed the diet, but the protocol has been found to address people with a wide range of other concerns.

Hearing so many people share their stories of improvement on the diet, especially with their children, I was truly humbled and thankful to have found this path to health. And yet, juggling work responsibilities and volunteer passions while mothering two small children while following a strict everything-from-scratch diet leaves little time for complementary approaches to healing. That’s where the Fourfold Path comes in!

Next weekend, February 3-5, Fallon-Morell and others will address the bigger picture of the multidimensional body at the Fourfold Path to Healing conference in Baltimore. Fallon-Morell and Jaimen McMillian were co-authors of Dr. Thomas Cowan’s 2004 book of the same name, whose subtitle is: “Working with the Laws of Nutrition, Therapeutics, Movement, and Meditation in the Art of Medicine.” All three authors will be speaking at the more intimate conference, which this year adds a day-long class in traditional cooking methods led by Simply Being Well founder — and Wise Traditions conference presenter and meal coordinator — Monica Corrado.

“The reason I love the Fourfold Path conference so much is that it address what we as holistic mothers know about what keeps us in

Chef Monica Corrado served up traditional fare at the 2011 Wise Traditions conference

balance and what helps the body come to wellness,” Corrado said. Knowing my concern about “fitting it all in,” Corrado was quick to add that meditation can be an om, or knitting, or “sitting and looking at your child with eyes of love.”

For several years, Corrado has taught traditional, whole foods cooking classes and worked as an alternative health practitioner. She appreciates that Cowan brings his knowledge as a medical doctor to an approach that treats the patient as a multidimensional being requiring attention in a way that acknowledges the body’s complex physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and life-force energies.

To her, the work was groundbreaking when the book was first published, and it remains leading-edge today. At the experiential conference, participants can learn from McMillan, getting spatial dynamics exercises into their bodies.  This, Corrado says, can give parents a whole new understanding of how our children process stress, learn, and experience the world. She’s excited to be teaching people how to make bone broth and to cook with liver, which she says are critical to healing on the fourfold path.

Fallon-Morell will also give lectures on the building blocks for wellness from a nutrition perspective. At Wise Traditions, there was an entire children’s track of talks that addressed the important components of pre-pregnancy diets and important foods for children. (Hint: natural fats play a big role!). All those presentations – and those from previous years – are available for purchase at http://www.fleetwoodonsite.com/weston. I thought I’d eaten healthy during both of my pregnancies, but after watching Fallon-Morell talk about the preconceptual and prenatal body’s needs, I wish I’d reached for more liver, caviar, and bone broth. Eating the way I do now before I got pregnant might have helped me avoid the digestive and skin issues that have posed challenges in the sleep-deprived postpartum year and a half.

Fourfold Path to Healing author Thomas Cowan, MD

At the Fourfold conference, Cowan, an anthroposophical doctor who draws on the work of Waldorf education founder Rudolph Steiner, will talk about the role of warmth and rhythm in healing in addition to addressing issues related to common illnesses, inflammatory illnesses, and the workings of the heart.  Cowan’s work looks not at alleviating symptoms but at addressing healing from this fourfold path in a way that leads to real, fundamental healing.

It may be a challenge for this mama to get the kids taken care of so that I can attend the whole conference, but it sounds like I’ll walk away with tools to better address my own health and thereby be a more holistic caretaker of my children’s health, in all its forms.

Photos courtesy of Liz Pitfield


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A “good” baby

Posted on January 26th, 2012 by | Find Out More About Lisa Hassan Scott

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Here in the UK many people ask new mothers, “Is he good?”  They’re referring to the baby: is the baby good, they want to know.  What they mean is: does he sleep through the night?  Does he cry?  Does he make a fuss?  Being good means being quiet and passive.  Being good means sleeping all night long even if that goes against the biological norm.  Being good means being seen and not heard.

This question drives me nuts.  How does a baby’s sleep pattern relate to his moral worth?  Of course my baby is ‘good,’ but he certainly does not sleep through the night!  Of course he is good: he’s good at telling me what he needs and wants; he’s good at demanding the best possible treatment; he’s good at being a baby!

As an LLL Leader, babies that are quiet make me worry.  Newborns that are constantly asleep, fall asleep on the breast and make few noises are often newborns that lack the calories to communicate or stay awake long enough to feed.  A newborn who sleeps all the time is often not receiving the calories he needs to be awake, feed or cry.  Newborns need to breastfeed at least 8-12 times per day in order to thrive.  If they sleep too much they can’t fit all those feeds in, the result being a quiet baby but a drop in the mother’s milk supply and the baby’s diaper output and weight.

Sometimes a teacher or other adult will praise a child saying, “I hardly knew he was there!”  Is this praise?!  If someone else hardly knew I was there, I’d begin to wonder why I was being such a wall flower.  Does anyone hope their son or daughter will grow up to be a silent, passive watcher of life, or do we want our children to be vibrant, energetic and communicative adults?  If we want the latter in adulthood, it makes sense to accept these qualities in our babies and young children.

Many people worry that picking a baby up will spoil him.  I love Bill and Martha Sears’ analogy: only fruit that has been left alone without attention for too long will spoil.  Children who are given our love and attention do not spoilt like fruit; rather they flourish and blossom.  It’s okay to pick your baby up when he cries.   When you breastfeed your baby to comfort him you are using a time-honoured mothering tool to soothe your baby.  Attending to your baby’s needs teaches him a valuable lesson: you matter enough for me to stop what I’m doing and give you my full attention.  Your baby’s relationship with you is his first foray into a lifetime of relationships.  You are teaching him about empathy and compassion, love and friendship, listening and responding.

So your baby may not be “good” but that’s ok. You can rest assured that you have a lifetime of interesting, exciting moments with your child as he grows into adulthood.  And as you listen to him, respond to him, nurse him when he needs it and cuddle him as much as you can, remember that things won’t always be this way.  One day, he will be too heavy to be picked up, too big to fit in the sling, too embarrassed to cuddle you, and eventually independent enough to set forth in life without the need for your constant presence, response and reassurance.  And then you will probably hanker for these days and wonder where the time has gone.  But you can be satisfied knowing that you didn’t allow him to spoil like that fruit in the bowl on the countertop: you gave him all he needed and made sure he knew he was special.

 

Photo credit: Flickr.


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Homebirths on the Rise

Posted on January 26th, 2012 by | Find Out More About Melanie Mayo-Laakso | Mothering.com

The CDC reported today that homebirths are on the rise in the US.  Michele Deck, President of Lamaze International, responds to this study “Trends in Home Births in the United States: 1990-2009.” Read her response and then tell us why you chose a homebirth. 

The nearly 30 percent rise in home births may reflect the growing awareness among women of the gap between evidence-based care and the typical care women receive.  This trend suggests that women are increasingly interested in taking their maternity choices into their own hands.

The choice for home birth is backed by evidence showing that women with low-risk pregnancies tend to have equal or better outcomes at home than low-risk women who deliver their babies in the hospital.  The NCHS report affirms that the risk profile of women delivering at home is lower than those who chose to deliver in the hospital, suggesting that women and their healthcare providers are appropriately considering risk in their decision-making process.

For Lamaze educators, the statistics behind this trend are reflected in the day-to-day interactions that they are having with pregnant moms.  More and more often, women are seeking out childbirth information backed by science and recognizing that routine care in the hospital doesn’t always meet their needs.  We hear from many moms who have had negative hospital experiences with unnecessary interventions, limited support and poorer than expected outcomes.  More moms are considering birthplace options and are ready to push back for the best care for them and their baby.

The drivers behind the decision to give birth at home are apparent.  A laboring woman is not subject to routine restrictions or interventions, which can make labor and birth more difficult.  At home, pregnant moms can choose their caregivers, invite family and friends for support, wear their own clothes, sleep in their own beds and eat their own food.  And, at home, women avoid the risk of hospital-borne infections that are a growing concern in the health community.

With strong research affirming the safety of home birth, the choice is one that pregnant moms and their care providers should make together after evaluating overall health, obstetric history, nutritional status, home environment and social support.  After reviewing these key factors, it’s a matter of moms deciding what’s right for them and their baby.  Most importantly, Lamaze recommends that wherever women choose to deliver their babies, they advocate for themselves to make sure their care is rooted in the Six Healthy Birth Practices.

For tips for moms choosing a birth place, see Lamaze’s “Six Tips for Choosing a Birthplace.”

About Lamaze International

Lamaze International promotes a natural, healthy and safe approach to pregnancy, childbirth and early parenting practices.  Knowing that pregnancy and childbirth can be demanding on a woman’s body and mind, Lamaze serves as a resource for information about what to expect and what choices are available during the childbearing years.  Lamaze education and practices are based on the best and most current medical evidence available.  Working closely with their families, health care providers and Lamaze educators, millions of pregnant women have achieved their desired childbirth outcomes using Lamaze practices.  The best way to learn about Lamaze’s steps to a safe and healthy birth is to take a class with a Lamaze certified instructor.  To find classes in your area, or for more information visit www.lamaze.org.


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Sibling Rivalry

Posted on January 26th, 2012 by | Find Out More About Brain Child Magazine

Well, we didn't fight ALL the time.

It could start any number of ways, but it was clearly always my sister Erin’s fault. (Says the first-born child.) She might sit too close to me. She might eat a big spoonful of peanut butter and breathe it in my face, something that I could not abide. Once, I discovered she actually wrote her own memories in my diary.

It would erupt, moving quickly from small-scale bickering to a full-on fight. If our mother were on the phone, those days still rotary and tied to the wall, she would move as far as the spring of a cord would take her. She’d snap her fingers to get our attention and then make the international signal for “cut it out” at her own throat. “You are in trouble,” she’d mouth. “Wait. Just wait.”

Of course then Erin and I would make of a big show of loving each other, a regular Norman Rockwell picture of sibling love. We didn’t want to find out what happened when the phone call was over. (As it turns out: nothing.)

We grew up, and Erin and I, along with our other two sisters, count each other as our closest friends. But does it always work out that way? And, more to the point, was there any way our mother could have avoided the ongoing headache that is sibling rivalry?

Katherine Ozment, a mother of three, looks into just that. Whether you’re a sibling, are parenting siblings, or both, you have to read this piece. Because there’s nothing funny about peace, love, and understanding.

—Jennifer Niesslein, co-founder of Brain, Child magazine


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